Introduction

Welcome. My name is Catherine Garza and Rehema is my Ugandan friend. I wish I had begun this blog from the very beginning because the journey of our friendship has been exciting and full of stories. When I met her, Rehema had just come from her home in Lira, Uganda on a Ford Foundation scholarship. She had just begun to work on her graduate studies in Health Education here in Austin at The University of Texas. There is a huge gap in our story from then to now. She is currently living with our family and continuing her studies. I often wish I could share our days with friends and family so they could experience the richness of living with someone from such a different culture, country and environment. Hopefully, this blog will give those interested a taste of our experiences.

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

He Went Before Us!

In my last post I ended by saying that I was praying for God to go before us in the school registration process. I was nervous about the TB testing and the fact that our school systems are not comparable and the problems that my cause enrolling Churchill. Well, this morning I found out that Churchill's transcripts were in London (long story), not in his possession, like I thought. We were about to leave for the high school and so we began to scramble to get them sent here by fax or email. It was 7pm in Uganda, but Rehema was able to reach a teacher by skype and he said he would email them tomorrow. I continued to pray that God would handle all the details and tried not to freak out.

Poor Churchill looked so disappointed when I told him that I wasn't certain they would accept him as a student without his transcripts. He had spent all morning getting ready...he cut his hair, shaved, showered and had just come out to ask me if he was dressed alright. I told him that we would go anyway and see how far we got.

The first thing that happened in the registrar's office completely took me off guard. They looked in their book that confirms your school district by your address and told me that we are actually in the Austin High School district. I told them, "Well, that's interesting, because I have one son who has already graduated from here and one currently enrolled." I assured them that no, we did not transfer and that I was certain this was our high school. After a few minutes, they realized that the book is poorly laid out and terribly confusing, and that I did, in fact, reside in the McCallum school district. What a relief! I was trying to figure out how I was going to break it to Logan that he would have to start fresh at Austin High!

After that, it was so simple. The nurse had no issues with his shot records or TB test. The paperwork was all in order, and the registrar just said that he would have to be in the system as a 9th grader until the transcripts come in. Next we went to his counselor to select his classes and she enrolled him in 11th grade English, US History, Calculus, Anatomy and Physiology, Speech, and Steel Drum Band. So he ended up in classes with his peers and was actually excited about his math and science class...smart kid!

Truly, God did get to the office first and prepared everything in advance. It was especially evident when the counselor asked where they were from and she said her priest, Father Isadore, is from Uganda....she loves Father Izzy!

Tracy's enrollment went so easily and quickly...paperwork took all of 5 minutes and she was walked down the hall to Mrs. Thomas' class...who, by the way is the sweetest teacher. Meagan had her and loved her. All the first grade teachers are great, but she oooozes sugar. She will be very patient and kind with Tracy while she gets used to the new schedule, the accents, the interaction with new kids, and the school work.

So, we now have a new Lee Roadrunner and McCallum Knight in the family. All seems so right in Austin, Tx this afternoon. God is good. He gave me this encouragement today, just to drive the point home that I had nothing to worry about all along...
Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow. They neither toil nor spin. -Matthew 6:28

PS: Thank you Deanna for all the moral support and for going with us. You kept me laughing when I wanted to freak!

Tuesday, January 18, 2011


Finally...It's time for School!

Well, we have finally finished getting all of the shots and tests required by ASID to enroll Churchill and Tracy in school. The biggest hurdle was the TB test which may read positive because of the BCG vaccine they receive in Unganda against TB. Today they were given Quantiferon tests at the health department which does not react with BCG, but will still show whether they have been exposed to Tuberculosis. The Austin/Travis County Health Dept. recommends that they are able to enroll as soon as the test is administered if they have no symptoms. So we will go to Lee Elementary and enroll Tracy in the first grade tomorrow! She is so excited...before they left for Florida, she said she would rather go to school than to Disney World :)

I am trying to take one step at a time and not worry about anything unless it becomes a problem. I am a little nervous that McCallum High School will not accept Churchill as a student because by Uganda's standards, he has graduated high school and completed one year of vocational college. However, he just turned 17 last November and had completed 10 years of school when he finished what they call high school. We just need to be able to convince the registrar that we are not comparing apples to apples with our school systems. My good friend, Deanna, will be going along since she has lots of experience registering students from other countries. I am praying that God will go before us as He has in everything else concerning these children.

Monday, December 27, 2010

Little Bitty Update

I am posting a tiny update because I am too tired to go into detail...not because of our new house mates, but because of all of the holiday preparation etc!

Tracy and Churchill arrived, a few minutes ahead of schedule (unbelievable!), at about 9:15 on Christmas Eve. We were expecting their plane at 9:30 according to the monitor, but I spotted them on the escalator 15 minutes early. Rehema ran to the bottom of the stairs and started yodeling...Tracy's face immediately went sour. She was so embarrassed! But she got over it quickly and Churchill's grin was big enough for both of them. There was a lot of hugging and laughing and the woman behind me said, "Oh my God! I don't even know them and I am crying!" It was truly a sweet reunion.

We didn't stay up long when we got home...they ate and bathed and everyone went to bed so Santa could come. Christmas morning was probably a bit overwhelming. Tracy shook her head and refused to believe that Santa left her the gifts we told her were for her. She got a baby doll with a stroller, that we had to show her how to use. They carry their babies in slings in Uganda, not strollers. She also got two Barbies, a white one and a black one with several outfits. She insisted that they were all named Meagan and that the black one really was white. She also says that Rehema has turned white since she has been in the U.S. and wonders if she will turn white too.

They have taken the past couple of days to try to turn their body clocks around, since our day is their night. They are still up tonight at almost 8:30. They are in the family room watching Despicable Me and I hear Tracy laughing out loud every once in a while. A good sign that she is loosening up and becoming more comfortable around us. She is pretty shy and prefers to speak Luo to English. She is sure that she will find a black person in Austin to speak Luo with besides her mother and her brother who promises that after the new year, only English will be spoken.

Well, I hope to post more soon with some pictures of the reunion. I hope that you get to meet them soon. They are really beautiful.

By the way...if anyone has any size 10-12 girl's clothes to pass down, let me know. Tracy is much taller than we expected!!

Thursday, December 16, 2010

They'll Be Home for Christmas!
Yesterday we purchased tickets for Churchill and Tracy! They will be coming in at 9:30 on Christmas Eve. I have talked to the principal at the elementary school and they are expecting Tracy next semester. I now have to talk to McCallum to see what to do about Churchill.

While we were filling out all the info for the plane tickets, I got to find out the kid's birthdays. We thought Churchill was 18 and Tracy was 8, but they are actually 17 and 7. Ugandans don't keep track of age or celebrate birthdays, so I taught Rehema how to count out their ages. I am relieved that they are younger than we thought...I was worried about Churchill being too old for high school and that Tracy would look too old for the grade she will probably fit best in. Also, Graceyn really wanted a 'little sister' to take care of...now that she knows Tracy is 2 years younger, she can feel like 'big sister' to her.

Now we have to get busy and figure out immunizations, health insurance, sleeping arrangements, Christmas presents, warm clothes, and who knows what else. If anyone has information on health insurance for children residing temporarily in the US on 12 month visas, please contact me!!!!

Needless to say, we are going into this with a lot of prayer and trust in God's provision. Please pray for all of us as we go through this transition. There will be lots of adjustments to be made on everyone's part, but Churchill and Tracy will be going through enormous cultural changes. Pray that their youthfulness will make it easier on them than it was on their mother. They have never seen many of the things they will encounter on their trip here, alone. They do not celebrate Christmas in the same materialistic way that we do in America. School will be completely different. And even though they speak English, they will have to get used to the very different accents. (When I have talked with Tracy on Skype, she asks her mother to tell me to please speak English!) Oddly enough, one of the things I worry most about is the temperature difference from their home. Rehema wears hats and coats in the summer and she has been here for a year and 1/2! They will be coming in the beginning of winter and will never have felt temperatures this cold before...even though we consider our winters to be mild.

I am looking forward to posting about their reunion with their mother...they have not seen her in 1 1/2 years! Can you imagine? It's going to be a party...I better alert the security at the airport :)

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Tracy, Churchill and Advent

In my last post, I talked about Rehema's kids and the possibility of them coming to the US to be with their mother. I have wanted to post updates many times, but haven't had the time to sit at the computer to do it. A LOT has happened since my last post...

First of all, thank you to those of you who were moved to want to help bring Churchill and Tracy to Austin. Your prayers have helped us to see God's hand moving. Both kids have been granted US visas for 12 months, which apparently is very hard to get in Uganda. They are free to come and join Rehema as soon as we can get them plane tickets. Since it is the holiday season, airfare is very high. Yesterday all we could find was tickets that would cost about $2400 one way for the two of them. It looked like we were going to have to wait until February when the tickets were about 1/2 that price. But today, Rehema found airfare that would total about $1700 for the two of them and they would arrive around midnight on Christmas Eve.

There are still many unknowns and complications about caring for them once they get here, but God is showing us that it is not impossible. I just finished talking and praying with Rehema about making the decision to purchase the tickets. Please join us in praying for God's timing and direction in all of this. I really want to just get out of the way and let Him do His thing. It's a very hard thing for me to do! I want Rehema to be reunited with her children, but more than that, I want God to get His way.

I was reminded tonight how much this is like advent. We are waiting and anticipating Churchill and Tracy's arrival. As much as we are excited about that, we agreed that we were much more excited about the anticipation of the coming of our Jesus. And not just the anticipation of the anniversary of him coming to the world as a child, but the anticipation of him coming to the world in Glory! As much as we long for the day that we will be with Churchill and Tracy, we long for the day we will be with Jesus so much more.

Devin and I would like to host a small fundraiser to help Rehema with the costs of bringing her kids here and for caring for them once they are with her. I am not sure when that will be, but I will post about it here and try to get the word out through Facebook and email too. This is such a busy season for everyone, but we will see what is in store for us.

If you have been praying for this situation, please continue! If you have just learned about this sweet family, please add them to your prayers. I hope one day that you will meet them and that you will be as blessed as we have been to know them.

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Harriet Called Tracy

Rehema has 3 children. There is 18 year old Churchill who is from her first marriage at the age of 14 to the commander of the Ugandan army; 24 year old 'Big' Harriet whom Rehema adopted after the death of her twin brother; and 7 year old Tracy, who is also named Harriet but they call Tracy. In our family, we have begun to affectionately refer to her as 'Harriet Called Tracy'.

About a month to 6 weeks ago, Tracy's school had an outbreak of conjuctivitis. As we know here in the states, it is a highly contagious, but reletively easily treatable infection in the eyes. You apply a opthalmic antibiotic a few times a day and it is taken care of. Other than an itchy inconvenience, it is no big deal. But in Uganda, it is a whole different story. Because they aren't aware of exactly what it is, no measures are taken to keep it from spreading and extreme measures are taken to get rid of it. Rehema learned of the outbreak from an online newsource. In the report, over 100 children in Tracy's school had pink eye and in extreme cases, they were resorting to cutting out the children's eyes.

Hold the phone!!!!! Cutting out their eyes???? For Pink Eye? This is the point in time when I said, "We have to get Tracy here....soon." I told Rehema to tell her sister to keep Harriet Called Tracy home for a while until the outbreak was over and in the meantime, we would start the process of applying for a visa so she could come and be with her mama. We started asking around to find out exactly what had to be done to get her here and how to apply for passports and visas. Paperwork was started, money exchanged hands (everything requires a bribe in Uganda) and things got going.

Then the Kampala bombings occurred. Churchill is in University in Kampala and when the bombings happened, he freaked out. He asked his mom on skype, "When are you going to get me out of here?" And so we added Churchill to the process.

We have sent our end of the paperwork to Churchill and he is filling everything out for the American Embassy in Kampala in order to get visas for himself and Tracy. Ironically, Tracy now has a case of conjunctivitis!

This is what must happen in order to get both of them here:
1) We had to write a letter of invitation for both children to stay with us saying we would provide for them while they are in the United States.
2) They must provide specifics about what schools they will go to and where they will live while they are here.
3)They must be able to state who will provide plane fare for their trip to the United States.

We have taken the responsibility for them in all of the paperwork, but honestly, we do not have the cash laying around to buy two plane tickets from Uganda to the U.S. I am trusting that God will provide, and if He doesn't, then it's not in His plan for them to come to our home. This post is not a plea for support, but if you feel led to do so, please contact me to find out how you can help to bring Rehema's children to her in the United States and out of harms way in Uganda.
I know all things are possible for our Heavenly Father, and these children are more His than ours. I trust Him with them and with their situations.

This is what it would look like if they were to make it here to Austin....
Churchill would go to McCallum High School...probably as a senior.
Tracy would go to Robert E. Lee Elementary with Graceyn...probably as a Kinder or 1st grader.
They would live here in our house with us and their mother.
They would have 'adopted brothers and sisters' and a huge extended family.
They would have an amazing church community.
They would learn all kinds of things that they never would have experienced in Uganda.
They would teach us things we can't even imagine.
We would absolutely fall in love with them.
Perhaps Graceyn would stop asking me on a daily basis if God had spoken to me about adoption....that would be a bonus for me.

I am hoping that we can hold several fundraisers to get Churchill and Tracy here. One idea is to hold a penny race at Graceyn's school. They already collect books for Libraries of Love which builds libraries for schools in Uganda and provides them with books. And they hold Geography Day every fall in which the whole school is transformed into a small globe for one day and children get to spend a whole day in a different country, learning about the culture, history, food, and people. Last year they added Uganda...hmmmm? Their radar is tuned in, so it should be a no-brainer. Hopefully we can arrange a skype date with a child in Rehema's family for Geography Day (probably her niece Precious...Tracy is too shy) so we can make it real for the kids. I also wanted to hold a semi high-end garage sale to raise plane fare.

If any of this touches your heart in any way and you want to help out in getting Churchill and Tracy to our home, please contact me. Devin has a 501C-3 set up that we can run everything through. If you want to give treasure, great! If you want to give time, great! If you want to give talent, great! These are two lives...three really...that you can help make a difference in. What our Father considers pure and undefiled religion is taking care of the widows and orphans. Rehema is a widow and neither of her biological children knew their fathers. I think God would qualify them.